I find that a lot of husbands are frustrated because they feel like they can’t please their wives like they used to. In fact, to many men, marriage becomes more and more difficult and frustrating because it seems to them that no matter what they do, they can’t really make their wives happy. They feel nagged and picked at a lot by their wives and find themselves getting defensive, which makes things much worse. Their wives want to talk about their feelings, but typically the words that come out sound critical and blaming to their husbands and are very hard to hear without reacting.
A lot of men are not excited about the idea of going to marriage counseling, because they think the therapist will gang up with their wives to hammer them to do whatever the wife wants them to do. It’s much less expensive and less upsetting to simply meet with a group of men online on a first name basis to ask an experienced marriage therapist whatever questions they want to ask or talk about whatever subject they want to talk about.
The forum will last an hour and be on the same day each week. The fee to be part of the husband’s Forum would be $25 a week instead of a much larger fee for marriage counseling each week. It would be held at midday on an agreed-upon day each week.
If you would like more details and/or like to be in such a group, please give me a call. As soon as we have five or more men interested in the forum, we will get started. If you think you might be interested in participating, give me a call at 1 406 370 3515.